First Impression

 Since the time i was very young i have heard people saying confidently “ ye to bht aage jaega” . Though today m not sure about it, but back then i used to be innocent. I always used to get confused & asks   “aapko kaise pta?”

           “dekh k pta chal jata h beta” was always the smart answer. Little i knew that this,  “dekh k pta chal jata h” theory prevails everywhere, more commonly known as FIRST IMPRESSION.

I seriously dun get it, how just by looking at someone, or after having a lil chit chat with some1, could any1 form views that too very confidently "ki ye to aisa hi h". May be god gave them an extra pair of eyes somewhere, to see, what i had never been able to see, shayd mujh mai wo xtra pair dalna bhool gae bhagwaan ji. 

Coming back to the point, i would not say i dun give it a thought ki kon kaisa h, but i avoid deciding it after first few meetings.

Scientifically it is proved that human beings have the most complex nature or system of all. So i  dun think ki meri itni aukaat h ki, kisi se sirf 1 baar mil k m ye decide kr pau ki ye kaisa h. If this theory had to be true, so would have to be the theory of “LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT”. I m blessed wid frns, jinko kch kch tym baad pyar hota rehta. And y to blame them, our bollywood movies always show it so dominantly. Sometyms this makes me wonder if it is so, then had i too been in love with every other crush of mine (gosh, meri to list hi bht lambi h). What i believe is sirf dekh k u gt attracted & "pyar", well it is something that can't be defined, it is felt.

Many of us brag about their power or intuitions about telling whats going on in a person’s mind. i dun know what they interpret is right or wrong, but what they tell about me is wrong most of d tyms. I whole heartedly dun believe in their “ dekh k pta chalta h yr” theory. Chances are that when u r into ur this process of interpreting sm1 by ur great theory, the otherwise happy go lucky person is going through bad phase or vice-versa.  Or may be that poor fellow is like me who dun open up easily & takes his time to be comfortable with you.

This mortal world is ruled by perspectives, either wrong or right. So sbki apni apni theories, apne apne beliefs, ain’t it.  This article is what my perspective is J . jst a suggestion to these great people, if u dun know what’s actually going on in a person’s mind, dun judge him just by his actions, baki its just a suggestion. ;)